28-Wed-Oct-2026
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Author :
Dr. Sheikh Jeelani
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BNYS | FTECH
It’s a bit irrational, this love affair, but nevertheless, it’s there. This is key to understanding how men relate to their penis and how they relate to other people with/through their penis. At their most primal, men seem to want to share their penis with the world – perhaps seeking validation or approval. Whatever the motivation, men have been encouraged in this delusion by the larger culture. So, when I asked a guy what his partner might think about his penis, he answered, “She loves it – well . . . I hope she likes it.” Things get more complicated if I ask them how much she thinks about his penis when she thinks about him…
“Not sure . . . maybe she does?” Every guy knows that when it comes to expressing how he feels about his partner, the penis is not the best medium. We talk about the role of other body parts that are far more expressive. Yeah, the penis can be a lot of fun! But it’s not the star of the show most men have been taught. When it comes to erotic play, lips, tongues, teeth, fingers, skin, and even hair is way up there.
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